Forgivenes

Forgiveness its a word that seem easy to say it or to do it but in reality not everyone could done it. We all have our own limit of something. Something that is really hard for someone to forgive. Well, I'm sure every one have heard this line before , it said ," You can forgive but can't forget and you can forget but can't forgive" So which one is the worst?

From my point of view, its better to forgive someone and do not forget about the incident. Because it help us to prevent it happen again. Yes , its hard but life is not that easy. I believe everything happen for a reason. No matter its bad or good but I'm pretty sure it has a reason behind it. Sometimes in life we did not aware of our surrounding , the changes of life because we too looking forward for future or maybe past. So important thing about life is to live with your present. Because that counts and we won't stress or depress much about our life. You see, some people just can't move on of their past . Yes everyone would like to turn the time because they would like to correct their mistakes or even wanted the event to happen again. And some people have too much planning for their future , well its not a bad idea about it. But come to think of it again , if you did not make a full use of your present, do you think you can achieve it on future? Obviously its a no.

So some people said " Alright I will forgive you later " But what happen if its too late? Does everyone die with an old age? Do we have criteria for dying? NO. Because this is all done by our God. Even though
you're an atheist , do you think you will be living with peacefully? No. Because incident that meant to be remember will be the hardest to forget about it . And the worst part its when you can't forgive and you will feel angry to yourself because you just can't accept the fact .Especially for some people who have a so called "BIG EGO" . We can't just put the blame on them . Reflect ourselves what we had gone wrong. People who have "BIG EGO" are people who can't accept the fact and always think they did right. That is the reason why I will always reflect myself in the end of the day . Just in case I hurt somebody feeling or maybe I'm just too harsh or whatsoever.

Most importantly being human is to have humanity. Forgive even though its hard and if you did wrong please ask for forgiveness and you will have less burden rather than thinking of it and get depress. So drop your "ego" and start living on your present life.